珊達萊姆斯:我是女人、我是影視圈的王|好萊塢美劇金牌製作人

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如果你喜歡美劇《實習醫生》(Grey's Anatomy),對《醜聞風暴》(Scandal) 和《謀殺入門課》(How to Get Away with Murder) 裡充滿人性與轉折的劇情欲罷不能,你不得不認識幕後推手,珊達萊姆斯 Shonda Rhimes。她沒有顯赫的家世,也沒有嫁入豪門,她只是很清楚自己要做什麼,做著自己喜歡的事情,然後學會忽略別人的閒言閒語。以下是編輯個人非常喜歡的,珊達萊姆斯的名言錄,在我迷惘的時候這些話讓我感到力量,希望也可以給你帶來力量。

如果你喜歡美劇《實習醫生》(Grey’s Anatomy),對《醜聞風暴》(Scandal) 和《謀殺入門課》(How to Get Away with Murder) 裡充滿人性與轉折的劇情欲罷不能,你不得不認識幕後推手,珊達萊姆斯 Shonda Rhimes。

她被時代雜誌選為年度百大影響力的人物,最近又被 Netflix 簽下特約製作的版權,她不只是事業有成的女強人,還獨自扶養三個女兒。珊達萊姆斯是怎麼辦到的?她沒有顯赫的家世,也沒有嫁入豪門,她只是很清楚自己要做什麼,做著自己喜歡的事情,然後學會忽略別人的閒言閒語。

以下是編輯個人非常喜歡的,珊達萊姆斯的名言錄,在我迷惘的時候這些話讓我感到力量,希望也可以給你帶來力量。

 

1. 「沒有什麼規定,唯一的規則是 “沒有規則”,只要你照著你想做的活,聽你內心的聲音,你就會快樂。只有當你活出自我,而不是自以為的某個形象,你就會快樂。」

珊達萊姆絲shonda_rhimes

“There is no list of rules. There is one rule. The rule is: there are no rules. Happiness comes from living as you need to, as you want to. As your inner voice tells you to. Happiness comes from being who you actually are instead of who you think you are supposed to be. ” |圖片來源:EW

 

2. 「我不是幸運兒,你知道我是什麼嗎?我聰明、有才華、掌握機會,而且非常非常努力。不要叫我幸運兒,叫我狠角色。」

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“I am not lucky. You know what I am? I am smart, I am talented, I take advantage of the opportunities that come my way and I work really, really hard. Don’t call me lucky. Call me a badass.” |圖片來源 MarieClaire

 

3. 「做夢很美,但這畢竟只是夢,倏忽即逝、美麗夢幻的。夢想不是想想就會成真,是執行才會讓它發生,只有行動才會產生變化。」

珊達萊姆絲shonda_rhimes

“Dreams are lovely. But they are just dreams. Fleeting, ephemeral. Pretty. But dreams do not come true just because you dream them. It’s hard work that makes things happen. It’s hard work that creates change.” 圖片來源|FoxLife

 

3. 「你可以辭職,但不能辭掉媽媽的角色,媽媽是一輩子的,媽媽永遠沒有下班的時間、永遠沒有假期,成為母親毀滅又重建、重新定義、重新塑造我們,成為母親是逼迫自己面對孩子、面對自己的母親與其他人,面對自己最不想面對的黑暗面。成為母親是逼迫我們成長,承擔著可能毀掉一個人一生的風險。成為母親是把自己的心扯出胸口,縫在另一個人的身上,然後看著他走進這個世界裡,終身都是他的俘虜。」

珊達萊姆絲shonda_rhimes

“You can quit a job. I can’t quit being a mother. I’m a mother forever. Mothers are never off the clock, mothers are never on vacation. Being a mother redefines us, reinvents us, destroys and rebuilds us. Being a mother brings us face-to-face with ourselves as children, with our mothers as human beings, with our darkest fears of who we really are. Being a mother requires us to get it together or risk messing up another person forever. Being a mother yanks our hearts out of our bodies and attaches them to our tiny humans and sends them out into the world, forever hostages.” 圖片來源|BCKOnline

 

4. 「你只需要 15 分鐘,在我最糟的狀況下我還是有辦法生出不被打擾的 15 分鐘。沒有手機、不管家事、什麼都不做的,沒有干擾的 15 分鐘。我們都很忙,還有晚餐要煮、還有小孩要趕去洗澡,但你絕對可以生出 15 分鐘。我的孩子就是我的快樂來源,他們是我的一切,但對你而言不一定要是你的孩子,找出讓你快樂的動力,找到讓你覺得活著很棒的事情。這跟是不是陪伴孩子沒有關係,而是快樂,玩樂可以帶來的快樂。給你自己 15 分鐘,找到了之後就全心全意的玩耍。」

珊達萊姆絲shonda_rhimes

15 minutes is all you need. I can totally pull off 15 minutes of uninterrupted time on my worst day. Uninterrupted is the key. No cell phone, no laundry, no anything. You have a busy life. You have to get dinner on the table. You have to force them to bathe. But you can do 15 minutes. My kids are my happy place, they’re my world, but it doesn’t have to be your kids, the fuel that feeds your hum, the place where life feels more good than not good. It’s not about playing with your kids, it’s about joy. It’s about playing in general. Give yourself the 15 minutes. Find what makes you feel good. Just figure it out and play in that arena. |圖片來源 NYTimes

 

6. 「你可以把生命浪費在限制自己上,或是踏出舒適圈活出自我。」

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You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. 圖片來源|Tedconfblog

 

7.  「你可能很清楚這輩子的目的是什麼,也有可能完全不知道自己的熱忱在哪裡,而無法動彈,實話是,這根本不重要,你不需要知道自己要什麼,只要你不斷的往前走。你只要一直不斷的做、把握每次的機會,不斷的嘗試新的東西。」

珊達萊姆絲shonda_rhimes

Maybe you know exactly what it is you dream of being, or maybe you’re paralyzed because you have no idea what your passion is. The truth is, it doesn’t matter. You don’t have to know. You just have to keep moving forward. You just have to keep doing something, seizing the next opportunity, staying open to trying something new.

 

8. 「我們都覺得自己很偉大,當我們的的期望無法實現時,會覺得好像被奪走了些什麼。但有些時候是我們的期望出賣了自己。期望往往是比不上意外的,那我們為何又要如此堅持著自己的期望?期望是為了讓我們可以穩住腳步的,穩住所以雙腳就不會移動。期望是所有事情的開端,但只有意外會改變我們的生命。」

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We all think we’re going to be great and we feel a little bit robbed when our expectations aren’t met. But sometimes our expectations sell us short. Sometimes the expected simply pales in comparison to the unexpected. You got to wonder why we cling to our expectations, because the expected is just what keeps us steady. Standing. Still. The expected’s just the beginning, the unexpected is what changes our lives. | 團片來源 Hollywood

 

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